Thursday, September 06, 2007

What is love?
Love, what is that funny feeling?
Now a day many misinterpret the meaning of LOVE.
No one really mean it.
I love you I love you it’s so easily said there is no weight to the word, LOVE.
So what exactly is love?
It’s hard to explain, as love works in many ways and come in many different forms.
Here’s some of my theory of what love is (:
It’s not accurate but what is, love is not countable for.
Firstly-
Some say:
"Love is always patient and kind. It is never jealous. Love is never boastful or conceited. It is never rude or selfish. It does not take offense and is not resentful"
This is the kind of love that bare no grudge, its the kind of love that holds non of the 7 sins, its the kind that appear in story books and TV drama.
Have you ever come across anyone whom loves another so deeply that no materlistic shit gets in the way? Yes, I will elaborate more on that later on (:
A love like this is what I would call perfect, flawless. But it doesn’t have to be two people it could be in an indivigle. Which makes it very noble, to hold a love for a person this great no matter now pain it is for that indivigle, your wish is for the opposite to be happy.
"It is never jealous"
Can you apply this to "lovers", not necessary. This is the kind of love that has no end.
It’s broad but rare.
Why?
The world is selfish. It can’t take too much kindness. Everyone is just "me, myself, i" or too afraid to show.
This is love, the happy-I-love-you type (:
You give and give but might not even get anything in return
But giving is what makes you happy
It’s the happy and the love.
Secondly-
The love that is REVENGFUL, I guess you would know what I am talking about.
This is lust; it’s the lust of revenge
Usually appears in form of overprotection, and most of the time after a breakup or a rejection.
This is the love that only harbours hate and more hate.
The total opposite of my first reason.
In another word I wouldn’t even call this love
Not love
Far from love.
Its scary :(
Lastly-
Force, sorry
Force is not love
A forceful love.
But many would think it is.
Many will resort to this in times of desperation.
But there’s other reason to it.
I would not call this love.
Because it’s fake.
BUT as fake as it might seem, like I say love works in many ways in many form. It’s still real, and its in many, or should I say EVERYONE.
Love is a really funny thing, it messes with you. And from this love you might/ will develop feeling and it's real
A time love, where the factor, time, is used to develop feeling for each other (:
After saying so much if this doesn’t makes sense to you. Never mind, because this is my personal point of what love might be (:
I experience love!
Today I went for my CME project at hospice, and what I experience is the happy kind of love.
I meet/interview this lady a social worker there who worked for 8/9 years. The way she expresses her love is truly amazing.
She just wants to give and give more; she wants the people around her to feel her love for them. Although many of these patients are about to die she still give them her love, her care, and her concern. Never giving up on each and everyone.
She has truly touched me I didn’t know how this is happening. And for the first time in my life I wish/want to give to (: